[Fannie]

he/him or she/her

 
We simply use "YOU" and/or "The Name Of The Member" .

YOU in 3rd person pronouns? No thanks, I don't like to sound like a sort of weirdo hahahaha
Have a gorgeous day, the CopyBotClub CBC!

[heiwashu]

10 years ago, we wouldn't be discussing what pronouns to use, we'd just talk.... Easier times...

[kestrelcast]

Thank you all for the warm welcome

lol, I was working hard at picking apart my inventory, re-rigging it and getting my textures ready for all you fine peeps.
As for the gender question : use 'they' lol ... I'm actually a lady, for those that are curious.

Even my avatar has a gender neutral name. I learned early on that it makes life as a homeless neko sandbox builder, and noob helper, significantly more peaceful.

I do have a male av that I use for testing (and a box of male spare parts) ...  like most players.
Maybe one of these days I'll even post a series of male clothing 3xl I created that I had for sale in another life.